Do the words you use with your family affect them negatively or positively?

Words matter. They have the power to harm or help. Mr. Rogers said, “The greatest thing we can do is let people know that they are loved and capable of loving.” So, begin by thinking about the words that all adults in your home are using, with each other and with your children. Using positive words can create an encouraging learning environment in your home and a happy home.

What are some positive phrases that are often used with children? What are the positive phrases that you use with your family? 

*You are loved.       I have faith in you.   You make me smile.    I know you can handle it.

*You are creative.   Trust your instincts.    Use your head.    You can say no.

*Your choices matter.    You are capable.   Your words are powerful.   You are deserving.

*You are strong. I love you.   You make a difference.  I like to hear what you are thinking. 

*Thanks for sharing!   You make everyone happy.   I am proud of you.

*I see you working and learning every day.     You are a great helper in the family.

*Your ideas are interesting.    Thanks for helping me.   I’m listening.

*Thank you for contributing to our family.    You make everyone happy.  I am proud of you.